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How to Become a Lucky Person

Do you consider yourself lucky? Lucky Nicky, my friend, always found the perfect parking spot wherever we went. I couldn't believe it until I discovered that you can actually learn to be lucky. Gay Hendricks, a renowned psychologist, explains how conscious commitment and luck-worthy goals can transform your life. Choose to be lucky and embrace the magic of a shifted mindset.
In a world where opportunities abound, there's often one significant obstacle holding us back: ourselves. But what if we realized that we have the power to create anything we desire? By shifting from a victim mindset to that of a conscious creator, we can tap into our true potential. Welcome to the Empowerment Triangle, where the roles of Victim, Villain, and Hero are replaced with Creator, Coach, and Challenger. In this article, we explore the transformative power of embracing the Creator role and taking responsibility for our lives. Discover the key skills of a Creator, from passionate commitment to conscious focus and decisive action. It's time to break free from limitations and design a life that aligns with your vision and aspirations.
In a world obsessed with heroes and fixers, it's time to reevaluate our approach to problem-solving at work. Being a constant fixer may seem noble, but it often perpetuates drama and powerlessness. This insightful article challenges the notion of heroism and introduces the drama triangle framework. By understanding the limitations of the hero mindset and embracing a more creative and empowering approach, you can transform the way you navigate challenges. Learn how to escape the cycle of temporary relief and cultivate lasting solutions that bring true transformation and fulfillment in the workplace.
Learn how to break free from the cycle of blaming, criticizing, and judging others. Discover the different villain personas and how to stop being a villain yourself. Recognize the power of stories and how they shape your perception. Empower yourself to resolve issues and conflicts with self-awareness. Find out what to do when encountering someone in villain mode. Understand the importance of recognizing drama and questioning your limiting mindsets. Free yourself from negative cycles and move towards empowerment. Dive into the Villain mindset on the drama triangle and gain valuable skills for personal growth.
Triggers: those moments when our emotions surge, leading us to react in ways we never intended. We've all experienced them—those sudden bursts of anger, shame, or guilt that catch us off guard. But what if triggers held the key to a deeper understanding of ourselves? What if they were invitations for growth and self-discovery?
Discover the Empowerment Triangle as the antidote to drama in leadership. Learn how to shift from powerlessness to empowerment through the roles of Creator, Challenger, and Coach. Uncover the secrets to conscious decision-making and self-awareness for a life filled with possibilities.
Discover why you feel stuck and powerless to change in your life. Explore the dynamics of the Drama Triangle and how it keeps you trapped in recurring patterns. Gain self-awareness to recognize your role as a victim, villain, or hero, and learn how to break free from drama and step into empowerment. Unlock your potential for lasting change and regain control over your life.
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Break free from the trappings of identity with the Enneagram

Unlock the transformative potential of detaching from your identity and embracing the Enneagram, a profound personality typing system. By delving into the nine archetypal points of the Enneagram, you can gain deep insights into your dominant personality type, its motivations, fears, and the way it shapes your thoughts, emotions, and actions.

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How Your Enneagram Type Influences Your Burnout

Explore how each Enneagram type tends to burn out and learn valuable insights to prevent burnout. Understand the tendencies of your Enneagram type and take proactive steps like setting boundaries, practicing self-care, seeking support, and developing healthier coping mechanisms. Unlock the power of the Enneagram to cultivate self-awareness, healthier relationships, and overall well-being as you navigate life’s journey alongside every type.

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Burnout 101- Are you burnt out?

Recognize the signs of burnout and learn how to break free from its grip. Find out how exhaustion, cynicism, and depersonalization can affect your well-being, and explore micro-adjustments that can help you recover and regain control. It’s never too late to make a change and start prioritizing your needs. Take the first step towards a healthier, more fulfilling life today.

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Loving Yourself at your ‘Worst’: an Introduction to Shadow Work

Imagine being stuck in bumper-to-bumper holiday traffic, dreading an event you don’t even want to attend. Frustration mounts as precious time ticks away and a sluggish SUV cuts you off. The road rage boils over, and you’re left grappling with guilt. We all have those moments, but they offer an opportunity to discover our shadow selves and grow. Embrace your shadow, integrate its lessons, and become a more balanced, whole individual.

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identity

Break free from the trappings of identity with the Enneagram

Unlock the transformative potential of detaching from your identity and embracing the Enneagram, a profound personality typing system. By delving into the nine archetypal points of the Enneagram, you can gain deep insights into your dominant personality type, its motivations, fears, and the way it shapes your thoughts, emotions, and actions.

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How Your Enneagram Type Influences Your Burnout

Explore how each Enneagram type tends to burn out and learn valuable insights to prevent burnout. Understand the tendencies of your Enneagram type and take proactive steps like setting boundaries, practicing self-care, seeking support, and developing healthier coping mechanisms. Unlock the power of the Enneagram to cultivate self-awareness, healthier relationships, and overall well-being as you navigate life’s journey alongside every type.

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burnout

Burnout 101- Are you burnt out?

Recognize the signs of burnout and learn how to break free from its grip. Find out how exhaustion, cynicism, and depersonalization can affect your well-being, and explore micro-adjustments that can help you recover and regain control. It’s never too late to make a change and start prioritizing your needs. Take the first step towards a healthier, more fulfilling life today.

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shadow work

Loving Yourself at your ‘Worst’: an Introduction to Shadow Work

Imagine being stuck in bumper-to-bumper holiday traffic, dreading an event you don’t even want to attend. Frustration mounts as precious time ticks away and a sluggish SUV cuts you off. The road rage boils over, and you’re left grappling with guilt. We all have those moments, but they offer an opportunity to discover our shadow selves and grow. Embrace your shadow, integrate its lessons, and become a more balanced, whole individual.

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Dr. Caneel Joyce is a CEO Coach and social scientist who helps people break out of the invisible traps and make whole-life changes easily and naturally.

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