#63: The Best Communication Ninja Skill - Speaking Unarguably


What if I told you that you could speak about anything that you want to in a way that nobody can argue with? If that were possible for you, what would that unlock?

Could you perhaps resolve some relationship tensions and issues that have been bothering you for a while? Could you maybe ask for a different role at work, a promotion, a raise? Could you maybe renegotiate some of your agreements with your family, with your partner that would actually help both of you to get more of what you want? 

What if I told you that this is both the simplest skill in the world and one of the most challenging to stick with?  

I'm really excited today to teach you one of my favorite skills that is directly relevant to the whole body of work that we call conscious leadership. This skill is a super ninja communication tool. It's also a really useful way to be self-aware of when you might be dipping into drama, and it's also a useful way to get out of drama and to stop spreading drama in your relationships and in your life. This skill is called speaking unarguably.

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